Hi. I’m Shane Birkel. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have extensive training in Couples Therapy and am focused on getting Couples results in a short amount of time.

When Couples are on the brink of divorce, going to therapy once a week for 50 minutes isn’t going to move the needle. When I work with Couples, I start with an intensive session that is 5 hours long. The goal is for you to leave that first meeting with a lot more clarity and a plan about what to do next.

I have a podcast called The Couples Therapist Couch where I interview many of the leaders in the world of Couples Therapy. I also do a lot of teaching of other Couples Therapists about how to work with couples. 

About Shane Birkel

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When you are looking for help in your relationship, it is important to find someone specifically with training in Couples Therapy. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I also have extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Gottman Approach and I am a certified Relational Life Therapist with Terry Real as my mentor. 

Professional Background

I will tell you the truth about what I see you doing to sabotage your relationships. I will be direct and blunt and it might be hard to hear, but my goal is to create change and help you get results. 

I do not have an agenda to keep your relationship together. What I really want is for people to face the truth in their life. I support people in being happy and healthy whether the relationship works out or not.

My Approach

Things I often hear clients say: 

CLIENT STORIES

“Our relationship is better than it ever has been”

“Thank you for saving our relationship”

“Our communication is so much better than it was before”

“We should have done this a long time ago”

“Wow, I didn’t know Couples Therapy could actually be so helpful”

“Our relationship is better than it ever has been”

“Thank you for saving our relationship”

“Our communication is so much better than it was before”

“We should have done this a long time ago”

“Wow, I didn’t know Couples Therapy could actually be so helpful”

“Our relationship is better than it ever has been”

“Thank you for saving our relationship”

“Our communication is so much better than it was before”

“We should have done this a long time ago”

“Wow, I didn’t know Couples Therapy could actually be so helpful”

  •  My wife and I have been together since 2006. It hasn’t always been easy, but through Relational Life Therapy I have personally transformed as a person and in my relationship. I believe that a therapist can only bring people as far as they have come in their own personal journey. 

  • I have 3 kids who are 21, 14, and 12. I love coaching their sports teams, uber driving them everywhere, and sharing experiences with them like hiking, biking, skiing, traveling, and going to the beach. 

  • We have chickens and I eat a lot of fresh eggs.

  • I love living in New Hampshire, about an hour from Boston, but I need to set the record straight. I am not a Patriots, Celtics or a Red Sox fan. I grew up in Nebraska and am still a huge fan of the Huskers, Chiefs and Cubs.

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